This practice of joining the wife's band provides a certain power to a !Kung San woman. She maintains the influence she has with her family, allowing her an extra measure of power in her relationship with her husband, as he is providing brideservice to her father (Stockard, 2002, pp.33). She can even request and persuade her parents to find a new husband for her if she feels the two of them are incompatible. The tradition of paying a brideservice also causes the !Kung San to value daughters in addition to sons as it means the potential for a son-in-law that provides meat. This tradition has aided in the !Kung San remaining a largely egalitarian society, where both men and women hold equal voice in the family and community decision making (Stockard, 2002, pp.27). My next post will examine the gender roles and expectations held by the !Kung San.
Stockard,
Janice E. (2002). Marriage in Culture:
Practice and Meaning across Diverse Societies. Belmont, CA: Wadsworth.
Uys, Jamie (Producer), & Uys, Jamie (Director). (1980) The Gods Must Be Crazy [Motion picture]. South Africa: Ster Kinekor


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